This is the new Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) "kid on the block." It is a process in which each party is represented by attorneys whose express goal is to settle your family law issue out of court. The parties and attorneys sign a collaborative agreement pledging not to go to court. 

It can be used in a wide variety of family law matters, including dissolution of marriage, elder care, contests involving wills or trusts, non-marital relationship break-ups, guardianships, conservatorships and adoption. If a judgment is already in place, it can be used to resolve post-judgment disputes, such as child custody and visitation, and spousal and child support. 

Many attorneys in Sonoma County, including myself, have been trained in the collaborative process. Attorneys who are qualified to work collaboratively are listed in the Sonoma County's Collaborative Family Law website, www.collaborativefamilylaw.org. If you decide to use this process, it is important that all parties select attorneys who have been trained in it.